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How to F*ck Her Like a Real Man
A real man knows that sexual intimacy starts in his words, in his approach. He knows that whether he comes on strong or eases his way in, his character and his posture serve to communicate the purity of his intention.
A real man honors consent every step of the way but trusts himself enough to seek it in a million sensual songs so that his loving does not devolve into a legal contract of initialed clauses and some punctuating, officiated orgasm.
He always proceeds in the name of truth and trust and safety.
He remains present. He touches her in the beginning only while looking into her eyes and feeling into her heartbeat. He knows that he must remain attuned to her responses so as to reassure her by the very nature of his advance.
He knows his weight in the gravity of her mystery — feels how she draws him in — and proceeds cautiously aware of the damage he might inflict should their bodies collide prematurely.
He remains rooted in the gravity of her tempest, assessing every movement, every breath. He notices when her legs twitch and senses whether she’s opening to him or pulling away. He feels the chill that runs up her spine when he says…
